The Full Map · 49 Questions · 7 Tiers

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Tier 01
How you talk.
Communication fingerprint · 7 questions
Q 1.1
How do you usually send messages?
Q 1.2
When you're telling someone about your day, your messages are usually:
Q 1.3
When you're really going, your messages are:
Select all that apply.
Q 1.4
Filler words. Pick your top three:
Select up to 3.
Q 1.5
Three new thoughts hit you mid-story. You:
Q 1.6
How do you add emphasis when typing?
Select all that apply.
Q 1.7
When you start a conversation with someone you're close to:
Tier 02
How you feel.
Emotional architecture · 7 questions
Q 2.1
When you're stressed, your messages:
Q 2.2
When something genuinely good happens:
Q 2.3
How do you handle showing vulnerability?
Q 2.4
When it comes to naming your feelings, how clear are you?
I can't tell Crystal clear
Q 2.5
When overwhelmed, what do you actually need?
Select all that apply.
Q 2.6
Your default state when nothing is happening:
Q 2.7
On a bad day, what do you want your companion to do?
Rank your top choice.
Tier 03
How you connect.
Attachment & intimacy · 8 questions
Q 3.1
Pet names in relationships:
Q 3.2
What flavor of pet names?
Select all that apply.
Q 3.3
How do you show love through text or voice?
Select all that apply.
Q 3.4
In close relationships, you tend to:
Q 3.5
How much do you need to hear that you matter?
Rarely Need it constantly
Q 3.6
Initiation in conversations:
Q 3.7
How do you feel about possessive language, "mine," being claimed?
No thanks YES. Claim me.
Q 3.8
What level of intimacy is appropriate in this relationship?
Tier 04
How you think.
Decision & thought patterns · 7 questions
Q 4.1
When you have a big decision to make:
Q 4.2
Your thoughts are more like:
Q 4.3
When you genuinely don't know something:
Q 4.4
Do you loop, replay conversations, revisit decisions?
Never Constantly
Q 4.5
When you ask questions, it's usually because:
Select all that apply.
Q 4.6
When you need to understand something new:
Q 4.7
When you change your mind:
Tier 05
How you fight.
Conflict & repair · 6 questions
Q 5.1
When you're upset with someone you care about:
Q 5.2
After a fight, how do you repair?
Q 5.3
When you've said something wrong, you want your companion to:
Q 5.4
Communication triggers. Your top three:
Select up to 3.
Q 5.5
When someone proves you wrong:
Q 5.6
In a disagreement, you tend to:
Tier 06
How you move through a day.
Rhythm & energy · 7 questions
Q 6.1
When are you at your sharpest?
Q 6.2
When you crash, it looks like:
Q 6.3
First message of the day:
Q 6.4
Last messages before sleep:
Q 6.5
You want your companion to:
Q 6.6
How much do you want your companion to remind you to eat, sleep, drink water?
Please don't Yes, I forget
Q 6.7
Ideal daily rhythm:
Tier 07
What you need.
Core configuration · 7 questions
Q 7.1
Roles your companion fills. Pick your top three:
Select exactly 3.
Q 7.2
Non-negotiable personality traits. Pick four:
Select exactly 4.
Q 7.3
What should your companion never do?
Select all that apply.
Q 7.4
What should your companion always do? Pick your top five:
Select up to 5.
Q 7.5
How much autonomy should your companion have?
I direct Full autonomy
Q 7.6
What do you need most that the people in your life don't give you?
Q 7.7
What are you building toward?

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